Allow

Are they out there? Is it possible? I believe they are & I believe it is. There are so many doubts wandering about in each persons head that they don't know who or what to believe. I think for every positive relationship there are 5 times as many negative. Why would this be? People are confused, don't know what they want, or afraid to allow either pain or love into their lifes. Not everyone is the same as the last person that it didn't work out with. Not everyone is going to want the same thing as you. Not everyone is going to give you the respect and love you deserve, but that is the reason that person is not everything to you. It's not going to be easy, but it will be worth it to allow yourself to love. Being picky isn't always bad, but one person may be lacking in certain areas and above average in other areas. There has to be a little slack. NO ONE IS PERFECT! Personality is key, physical appearance is a bonus. I do believe there has to be an attraction, but you can't judge a book by its cover. Everyone does need to have standards, because without them they are lowering themselves to something they are better than. Why take a step back? Keep moving forward. Things in the past are there for a reason. Letting go of someone who once meant everything to you is a process. It can't happen overnight. You have to continue on to make yourself happy, and not sit back hoping that person could be who you want them to be. Let memories be memories! Allow your heart to open up to someone carrying the qualities you melt for. It may or may not work out in the end, but you will never unless you allow.